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Family caregivers can underestimate how the lack of sleep can effect their well-being. What are the downsides to losing sleep and how can overnight care assist you?
Sleep. Deep, relaxing, rejuvenating sleep. This is something that can be sorely lacking in the world of a family caregiver. Their loved one has their ‘days and nights mixed up.’ There are times during the night they need to physically assist their loved one to the bathroom. Or they simply cannot fall asleep due to stress and worry. The lack of sleep can have serious health consequences.
Overnight Care for the Elderly
It is essential for the caregiver to stay healthy and a good night’s sleep is vital. Families have been surprised when I ask how their lives would be different if they were able to sleep more. Many have never considered having overnight care for their loved one, let alone home care services in general. They’ve considered a nursing home, day care, or assisted living and never knew this type of live in care existed.
Usually, their request for elder care is limited to daytime hours. In this scenario, the caregiver from the home care agency provides companion or personal care and the family caregiver manages the other aspects of their life and assumes the role of primary caregiver in the evening.
The Consequences of Losing Sleep
It just makes sense when you add everything up: You’re working, you’re spending time with your family, you’re arranging care options and/or home health for your loved one and caring for them during the evening hours. You have less energy, you can’t recover physically/mentally, and being a family care provider is very demanding and stressful on its own.
Part of the demand in caring for a loved one can result in what is commonly known as “compassion fatigue.” Family members can begin to psychologically take on the struggles and suffering of their loved ones. Here’s a great video clip of Patricia Smith, Founder of the Compassion Fatigue Awareness Project, explaining it in more detail:
The Benefit of Overnight Caregivers
It is not uncommon for people with dementia to be awake at night. Instead of trying to ‘insist’ the client go back to sleep, the caregiver can keep the client busy until he/she wants to go back to sleep. Families can rest knowing their loved one is receiving the care they need and household tasks may be done when they wake up!
Consider how different you may feel after a good night sleep. Even if 24 hour care isn’t feasible, perhaps having a caregiver every other night or 2-3 nights a week may change your life!